Welcome to our ring of blogs my tall likable friend, sometimes we all feel like that, and ive discovered the best way to deal with it is to be open and tell the person (or persons) whats on your mind, even if you think you'll sound stoopid, cos you'll find that if their worth knowing they'll change their ways, then if they dont, you have the choice of dropping them and moving on, you may even find its something theyve not realised, completely unintentional and there may be a reason behind their behaviour, but you wont know if you dont ask... ... anyway, i barely know you yet - except for getting you drunk - but i think your a great guy and lovely to know, you deserve great friends :D