thankyou "mr anonymous", (for those who dont understand go to sunday 23rd comments)
as much as your correct that im having relationship traumas, and i thankyou for your concern .. the song was still not aimed at any person in particular.. other than myself. and your right, the only thing to do when a relationship hits that kind of point is to cut your losses, move on and believe there is something better out there for you .. and you know what.. i DO believe that - but it doesnt make that song any less good, cos the song makes me laugh- since my last relationship trauma if feel a hell of a lot better, i dont feel bador guilty.. i feel indefferent, im glad he has moved on cos it means i can do the same with out feeling bad. point is if you knew me you would also know i enjoy sarcasm and i enjoy the fact that reel big fish did a song about that side of love rather than the mushy or the weepy sides .. cos it makes it all ok and normal .. it happens to lots of people all the time.
SO .. if you are truely a mr anonymous rather than a 'not-so' anonymous, put a link to your own blog as maybe i could benefit from your experiences since they are so like my own.
as much as your correct that im having relationship traumas, and i thankyou for your concern .. the song was still not aimed at any person in particular.. other than myself. and your right, the only thing to do when a relationship hits that kind of point is to cut your losses, move on and believe there is something better out there for you .. and you know what.. i DO believe that - but it doesnt make that song any less good, cos the song makes me laugh- since my last relationship trauma if feel a hell of a lot better, i dont feel bador guilty.. i feel indefferent, im glad he has moved on cos it means i can do the same with out feeling bad. point is if you knew me you would also know i enjoy sarcasm and i enjoy the fact that reel big fish did a song about that side of love rather than the mushy or the weepy sides .. cos it makes it all ok and normal .. it happens to lots of people all the time.
SO .. if you are truely a mr anonymous rather than a 'not-so' anonymous, put a link to your own blog as maybe i could benefit from your experiences since they are so like my own.
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Am sorry I don't have one I like to just wonder around
A good point well made. Not that mr annoymous wasn't correct in his observations but as much as his observations were so general and song is also general. He should remember that a song is a song that means more to one than another dependant on circumstance and the person involved - after all didn't some people hear the devil in records played backwards and most people heard only static.
It does however irk me that mr annonymous can't be true to his own beliefs and comment under his name... after all he can't believe in them that much if he has to hide behind a mask to say them.
Skip hello I post anonumysly because I don't blog and therefor don't have an account the song is only pitculer to one person but the fact that it was there made me ask why it was there and that's why we are were we are it seems as if floof is hurt by some one but it seems she'll be fine she has a great friend who seem's to have this kind of gardin angel thing about her I suppose shit happens and when someone like me pokes my nose in it's a bit unwelcome but I am not here to controdict anyone cos I don't know the full story but I have not long come out of a hurtful situation myself. Now I could hate that person and be bitter or I could just get on with it and as you may gather am getting on with it and just seing anyone get bitter just is not right cos what ever thay might be bitter of is actualy winning
this is how not to sign anon ...
floof
this is how not to sign anon ...
floof
I was going to say you can post under a name without having a blogger account :)
I think Mr A that it wasn't the fact that you posted because posts are welcome and you're right in many ways bout floof, but she posted the song because it was on at the time. Subconsciously yes it maybe that she related to the lyrics but a song can be just a song and you can look at it objectively. Not every song relates personally to you all the time. For instance i was listening to a song by Fleetwood Mac yesterday called Landslide, it's a sad song with beautiful lyrics but they don't relate to me personally, i just think it's a beautiful song.
it's a sensitive subject right now but that doesn't mean that floof is bitter it's part of a process you go through (hense the who are you posts) but that's how people move on.
p.s. there's nothing wrong with being a guardian angel to a friend when they need it but i'd say i was more an opinionated wench rather than guardian angel and I like to debate... and you have made some good debatable points!
as i said before your ongoing assumption that im bitter
over a particular person is wrong, im bitter of the
whole "love" thing, and it relates to more than one
person, i have just become cynical, a bit jaded
in the whole love thing .. and that is no-ones
fault, just part of getting on with my life after
one relationship disaster after another which seems to
be the pattern of my life...
but keep posting name or not, i too like the debate
im an argumentative person
So who is it ? Them or you ? are thay at fault or you ?
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